Some of us just need a push. Need something to give us a jump start. As you have heard me say a million times this is a journey. That it is. Everyone’s journey is unique! I have take many of diet pills in my lifetime. Some with success and other a complete waste of money. I believe if you are going to commit to eating healthy and adding exercise to your routine you can achieve great results. I know that some of us need a push or need to see results fast to keep on track. If you are looking for a supplement to take and you live in Ocean or Monmouth county please check out Slim Fit X. They are an amazing shop that will even provide when available a sample of the supplement so you can see if it works for your body. Check out their website! http://www.jerseyshoresupplements.com/ They have a store in Brick and one in Bradley Beach.
No judgement for take a supplement! Whatever it take to start and stay on your journey is how you should get started. To stay on this journey you will need to learn how to shop, cook and make good healthy food decisions. Adding exercise will only enhance and speed up your results.
What motivates you? What keeps your motivated? We all wish it was easy to lose weight and get into an exercise routine. There has to be something that motivates us. Is it that your clothes don’t fit? Is it what someone said to you or how they looked at you? It really doesn’t matter what it was that brought you to this journey. It is what keeps you motivated to stay on this journey. It is NOT a diet. It is a journey to a healthier you. It is a fitness and healthy food journey. Learning how to do what is your normal routine of shopping and cooking will be your first hurtle. You crave what you know. Your mind and body needs to be retrained. You have to learn what is healthy and what good portion sizes are. Finding different ways to cook that are healthy and new recipes that will be exciting. Eating healthy doesn’t have to be boring. Dreaded exercise…I say dreaded because so many people tell me they don’t know how to get started. Just start by moving! Take the dog for a extra long walk. Use half of your lunch hour and take a walk around your work parking lot. Join a gym that works for your life. Make sure its affordable, that you are comfortable there, they have a childcare so you can commit to going without excuses. Don’t be intimidated. Walk into the gym and be confident. Hop on a machine push the green start button and start moving. Commit to staying on the machine a little longer every time. Put the resistance up as you get into a routine.
I used to reward myself with food. I still do occasionally but before you can start with food rewards you have to meet your weight loss goals and really be in a good head space about your journey so you can have perspective. In the beginning that is just not something that is easy. No cheat days! Let your reward for weight loss be to get higher goals and set aside money to buy yourself a article of clothing or fun piece of inexpensive costume jewelry. Reward yourself with time..set aside some time to just sit and watch a mindless show, read a book or take a bubble bath! This journey you are embarking upon can be so rewarding! Just stay the course and if you veer off get right back on track. Don’t let any time go by…not a minute! The longer your off track the more weight you put back on or gain and gaining is so much easier than taking if off! I believe in you!
So we are about to go into March…I can smell spring:) Spring means we are that much closer to wearing less clothes! No more baggy sweaters and sweats! Get on track. If your journey has remained on track then I say keep on keeping on. Don’t forget to switch up your workout routines for the best results. I switch up my routines every month to month and a half. Right now I am focusing on glutes and abs. I add cardio and arms in but my main focus is glutes and abs. Find your target areas on your body that you want to work on and work on perfecting exercises to get you to your goals.
Don’t hide behind your sweaters anymore. Get your diet right! This is a journey. Remember even if you have gotten off track its ok! Just take every opportunity to get back on track. Don’t say I will start tomorrow. If you realize your off track the next thing you put in your mouth should be the start to getting back on your journey. It starts with picking the right foods to cook. Preparing your foods so you don’t set yourself up for failure when time gets in the way. Commit to exercise! If you exercise the weight will come off quicker. If you have an injury or reason your can’t workout than your food has to be on point! Follow me on pinterest! I have a board for healthy recipes and a board for exercise routines. I know how difficult it can be know what to cook or how to cook so if you follow me you will see I have tried several recipes on my board. Drink your water and if you haven’t tried it yet try drinking hot green tea each day.
So it’s been a while. Sorry about that! It is a new year and many make resolutions or promises to themselves. A lot about weight loss and fitness. Don’t set yourself up for failure! Do the research…don’t be lazy! You can only change if you do the research and pick and choose what will actually work with your lifestyle. Get on the internet, go to the library! Read up on recipes, find out how many calories you should be taking in to lose the weight you want. Read up about different programs that you can apply to your life. Find out what foods you should be eating. The only way it will work to lose weight and keep it off is to learn how to shop, cook and eat healthy. Learn balance so you can enjoy the things you love but still stay on a healthy journey.
Fitness is another key factor to this journey. You will lose the weight faster if you incorporate some sort of fitness to your daily life. Everyone has a level that they need to begin at. If money is an issue and you can’t join the gym then get outside and walk, go to the mall and walk. See if your cable network offers exercise programs. Find alternatives to the exercises or moves to fit your level. No excuses!
Drink your water! Half your body weight in water a day!
So I am in Orlando on vacation with my children. It’s vacation so we indulge a bit but I always keep perspective. I have been on this journey for a long time now. I have not gotten to where I am to begin to ruin it in a few days! I had groceries delivered to our villa so I could make the best decisions possible. When I am away from the villa I comb the menu for the healthiest choices I can make. As you all know by now I am big on dessert so I would rather make a healthy choice for my meal and have dessert! I have also been waking up every morning and working out! I normally put in 45 minutes to an hour at home but I committed to at least a half hour of cardio everyday while I am here. My day off was the morning we arrived;). I have been walking around a lot too so all my fitness goals are being met and that allows me to have the ice cream or treat I really want.
The holidays are upon us! Do yourself a favor and eat what you love. Eat what you really desire in moderation. Have a taste not a plate or two full! I don’t believe in deprivation because I truely believe that sets us up for failure! So eat the special appetizer your aunt makes that you love or your favorite Christmas cookie…have one not 10! Workout! I don’t care if the gym is closed for the holiday…get outside and take a walk or a jog! Do a video in the house or check your local programming for an exercise program. This is your journey…you can live but you can also achieve the body that you want to be healthy and fit!
So I am force feeding myself some new things. Yes, I said force feeding! There are certain foods I don’t like but I know are really good for me so I want to try to add them to my diet. Avocado is one of those items. I am a texture person. I have purchased two avocados and placed them in a paper bag to ripen and made them into guacamole to snack on. I can’t eat cilantro so I skipped adding that and added some spices I do like to try to convince my taste buds we like it. I have to say it fills me up and isn’t that bad. I definitely think avocados and I are going to be friends sooner than later!
I stumbled upon a treadmill routine and tried it out the other day. Some days are harder than others to hop on the treadmill and kill it. So to get around that trying something new is a must! I tried this routine and first round was a bit too easy for me so I upped incline and speed to fit my capabilities. The routine is a 10 minute routine that you can repeat as many times as you want. I blew through 30 minutes and it felt so quick. So here try this and if it’s not challenging you don’t quit. Up your incline and speed to challenge your abilities!
Balancing schedules during the summer seems more difficult than during the school year! Between camp, tutoring, a puppy, swimming lessons and work there isn’t much time left in the day! This stuff all makes our journey that much harder to stay on! The journey to make good decisions, exercise, healthy shopping and cooking. Then there is the constant temptation at every BBQ or evening out! Who wants to be the one that can’t eat what everyone else is eating or can’t have a drink with friends. So we indulge and enjoy. That is what life is about! Enjoying it whether it is food, times with family or friends or otherwise. So how do you stay on your journey and find a balance? I try to be very conscious of what I cook for myself at every meal. I workout and do more cardio then I would normally do when I know I am going out or if I went out the day or evening before. There has to be a balance. You all know I love ice cream and what better time to enjoy an ice cream cone then summer! So I eat my ice cream and sometimes feel a ping of regret but I realize it’s all about balance and enjoying life!
I have come to the conclusion that being this is my second summer in this “new body” I have become very judgemental about myself. Last summer it was a new summer for me to enjoy with my “new body”! I was so proud and so excited to show it off on so many levels. The bikini took until the end of the summer but all in all I was very proud. This summer I have spent a lot of time harshly judging myself and wondering if I should wear certain things. Its like I lost all this weight and look at other woman and wonder should I be thinner? Should I be more toned? Shouldn’t I have abs? So this swirling battle in my mind goes round and round. I come out of it knowing that I have worked my ass of for who and what I am today and I am still proud. I am happy with where I am and that I can enjoy my life eating and drinking for special occasions. Yes it would be nice to have abs! Yes it would be nice to be thinner but the real truth is I am 38 and I had two kids and I look pretty darn good! So I am working on calming my thoughts and embracing myself as I am! I will probably always want more which will keep my goals set high and there is nothing wrong with that as long as I can love the body I am in because I worked hard for it!
Enjoy your summer! Keep your journey going strong! Try something new! A new food or a new exercise! Most of all love yourself! Take off your cover up and wear your bikini! No regrets cause fall will be here before you know it!